So,its true that we live with lies. We all have lies and dirty little secrets that we keep completely to ourselves. It's what that makes us human. Its normal to lie. Politics, religions, Nations, they all have one thing in common : They all have lies. It may even be the very foundation of everything.
We all tell lies,be it a white lie for the greater good,or a bad lie to cover our own arse. But sometimes,what we see is a lie may as well be a truth. It was mentioned in Psychology before. A truth can be a lie,a lie can be a truth. It's all based on the perception of the receiver. If the receiver thinks its a lie,they'd be ashamed when they find out what they called a lie was actually a truth. It's messed up,i know. I've seen and experienced firsthand how this works. Turn a lie into a truth,a truth into a lie. It's simple as it is all in the mind. We not only tell others lies,but we even lie o ourselves. It's amazing how a lie can affect ourselves and others.The ability of a lie to fool and blind others are way beyond what we can imagine.
But when one tells the truth and is called a liar simply because the receiver does not believe in the person,nothing could be done except to prove it. Prove that the truth is the truth. Personally,I do think that its best to first be defensive,just to show that its the truth. But when it won't work,then prove it out. Prove it in their faces and hurt their ego. That way they will learn the hard way and that lesson would stick in their head.
I was very recently called a liar by someone who I really care about. Imagine the pain. I can't blame the person entirely. Emotions can sometimes overwhelm a person's mind. So I kept quiet and suffered in silence. I told a whole truth and in a second,this person told me that I am lying and that I am a bloody liar. Imagine the anger. I am a person who gets angry easily,but cools down as quickly. But I kept cool and let things roll its course. I'll put this to its natural course. See how it goes. But i am really offended and upset by that reaction i got.
Not everything is a lie. Sometimes its a lie because we assume it as a lie! Have trust in people,especially those who loves you sincerely and cares about you. Never ridicule them or question their sincerity. Regretting over it after is useless. Never Let Your Emotions Be The Master. Your mind is the master. Its pointless to offend and upset others by saying that they are lying when they are actually telling the truth. Look into the matter,investigate thoroughly, then only judge it to determine if its a lie or a truth. Don't shoot your gun blindly as you might end up shooting an ally. Words and accusations are more lethal and fatal compared to bullets. Bullets may kill,so can words. But the damage that words and blind accusations can inflict is more than a bullet. Liar,liar. Pants on Fire...
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