People talk about confidence everywhere. There are even books about it! But learning it hands on is way better than reading about it. I'm not saying that reading about it isn't worth your time, because it gives you ideas and tips! But whats the point if you know it but don't put it to use? Not like its black magic or whatever. its for your own good!
I've been told that I am confident most of the time. And I've been asked how do I manage to do so. My advise is simple, DON'T ASK YOURSELF IF YOU ARE UP TO IT. INSTEAD REMIND YOURSELF THAT YOU ARE UP TO IT! If you think you are pretty, and almost everyone around you say so,then you are! Dont be too down-to-earth,its not being humble. Its being without confidence! I've studied psychology and it taught me plenty. Like confidence! If I had not the confidence to study it, i wouldn't get the knowledge. If i had not the confidence to talk, I wouldn't learn, I wouldn't get to know people! Confidence gets you a long way in life! Its true that confidence can't be bad at times. But hey,if you didn't have the confidence to try,would you know?
That's what confidence is to me. Its hard to teach one to be confident. But yea, its easy to get. Its like waking up,look into a mirror and tell yourself e.g. : I am pretty/handsome,I can do anything and that's me! You're not as ugly as you think you are,you're not as weak as you think you are. Remember that! So basically that's my thoughts on confidence!
P.S : Hope this helps,my dear! <3
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